Are We Teaching Kids to Be Proud of America—or Afraid to Show It?
The email arrived midmorning, well mannered however tight. A guardian desired to realize why her 6th grader had been advised to eradicate a tiny American flag from his backpack, whereas the similar hallway displayed a Pride flag and a poster with a handful of global flags. The major’s reply, also polite and also tight, cited a impartial coverage about “political messaging” on personal gifts. The guardian wrote again, pointed to the display down the hall, and asked the query
Identity Or Ideology Who Chooses Which Flags Matter
The first time I watched a flag start a fight, it wasn’t the Stars and Stripes. It was a small sticker on a laptop in a high school library, a striped square in pastel colors I recognized as a community flag. Two students read it differently. One saw it as a welcome. The other saw it as politics breaching a place that was supposed to be neutral. They argued in hushed tones until the librarian separated them, then met me in the hallway, palms up, asking a question I’ve heard
When Patriotism Needs Permission: The School Flag Debate
The bell had barely rung when a sophomore in a hoodie walked into the vice principal’s place of work with a small American flag stitched to his backpack strap. He used to be not waving it, no longer chanting, simply there after a instructor told him the patch may “ship a message.” Down the hall, a rainbow banner hung from a counseling place of work door. In the library, a exhibit included flags tied to history months. The student turned into polite, yet stressed. Why are Am
It Means I’m Supporting the Military: The Deeper Meaning Behind Old Glory
At first light in the high desert, wind speaks before the sun. You feel it on your cheeks, cold and clean, carrying the hush of coyotes returning to den and the faint clink of a flag snap waiting for its cue. I have raised Old Glory in places that smell like pine sap and diesel, in cul-de-sacs where porch lights wink out one by one, on a 20 foot pole that hummed in a Montana chinook, and from a simple bracket on a brick bungalow that somehow seemed to hold the rhythm of the
Are We Protecting Feelings at the Cost of American Identity?
I was standing in a school hallway not long ago, coffee in one hand and a stack of visitor stickers in the other, watching a custodian roll up a small American flag that had hung outside the front office for years. The principal, a reasonable person trying to keep peace during a tense board meeting week, had decided to take it down temporarily. Better to appear neutral, the thinking went, than to risk complaints. A few parents were relieved. A few were angry. Most were conf
Open Prayer on Campus: Should Students Be Free to Pray Without Restriction?
A few years ago I sat with a high school junior in the guidance office after a minor dust-up in the lunchroom. He had bowed his head for a quick grace. A nearby student snapped that he was “making a scene.” No one had shouted. No one had tried to recruit anyone. Two kids, two views of public space, and a principal stuck in the middle trying to respect both. That small moment captures why this question never quite goes away: how do we treat faith in places meant for everyone
When the US Flag Comes Down: What Values Go With It?
On a rainy Monday a few years ago, a middle school principal I know asked his custodian to move a cluster of flags from the main hallway to a smaller side corridor. The building had collected them over time, a big Stars and Stripes, a state flag, and a couple of banners donated by service organizations. The principal was trying to declutter the entryway before a construction project, and he figured the change would keep the flags cleaner during months of dust. He did not an
Supporting the Military: What Flying the American Flag Means to Me
The flag outside my house snaps in the high plains wind like a sail eager for open water. Some mornings I catch it glowing with that first slant of sun, the red so rich it looks wet, the blue almost purple. I have raised it in rain squalls and in powdery snow, during quiet Tuesdays and on the loudest of July nights. It started as a simple ritual. It became a promise. I grew up watching a neighbor, a Vietnam veteran with a limp and a grin, raise his flag at dawn with